REFIRE: 6 steps to rewire your brain (and master anything).

You can teach an old brain new tricks.

But it takes more than simply waving a magic neuroplasticity wand and saying “Rewire my brain!

Brain plasticity encompasses a number neurobiological mechanisms by which our human brains and minds learn, change, and master new skills.

The capacity for brain plasticity varies across the lifespan.

During infancy childhood and teenage years, the neuroplasticity switch is dialled ‘ON’. In the adult brain, various molecular and physiological brakes act to dial the plasticity switch towards (but not fully) ‘OFF’.

The older brain is still plastic and remains plastic to the end of life. We can learn, change, and master new skills as adults. We’re all capable of learning to speak a new language at any age, but we’re not going to pick it up as easily as if we learned to speak it before starting school.

If a baby’s brain experiences ‘anything-goes plasticity’ whereby every experience moulds and changes neural circuits, then adult plasticity only occurs under particular circumstances.

When does adult plasticity occur?

If you’ve ever marveled at the outstanding skills of Olympic divers, gymnasts, basketball players, or other elite athletes, you’ll know they look natural and effortless (with super-human capabilities can seem so far removed from our own!!). It’s often not difficult to attribute their performances to innate talent or good genes: they’re gifted, natural athletes who were born to win.

But it turns out there is much more to mastery than innate talent. Underlying exceptional performance is the capability to tap into adult neuroplasticity.

Practice makes perfect because of plasticity.

If we could lift the lid and peer into the brains of violin virtuosos, surgeons, jet-fighter pilots, chess champions, tennis grand-slam winners, or the masters of literature and art, we’d see that exceptional performance (masquerading as talent) is typically acquired through roughly ten years (or 10,000 hours) of deliberate practice.

Deliberate practice isn’t what most of us think of as training. It’s not simply practicing a golf swing or playing a musical instrument a few times a week. Deliberate practice is a highly structured activity you engage in with the specific goal of improving your performance. It involves rehearsing a behaviour over and over again, constantly striving to improve performance, and using feedback from a coach or mentor.

Practice isn’t enough.

But there are a few more steps to mastery and brain rewiring than just deliberate practice: motivation, positive emotions, and visualisation all play a part. The adult brain’s innate capacity for neuroplasticity in adulthood can be tapped into when specific conditions that enable or trigger plasticity are met. These include when change is deemed to be important, rewarding, or crucial for survival.

I should note that any change needs to be built on a foundation of good brain health, a topic I’ve written about extensively. Here’s a good primer on brain health.

Here are the 6 steps that may enable you to tap into your capacity for adult brain plasticity and mastery. In other words ….


How you can R.E.F.I.R.E. to REWIRE

REASON: Find your why.

  • What is your goal? What skill, behaviour, or mindset do you want to learn, change, master, or perfect?
  • Having clarity around a goal breeds confidence, motivation and excitement rather than fear and uncertainty.
  • Knowing your goal enables you establish ‘micro goals’.
  • Microgoals set you up for some early easy wins. Early easy wins close the feedback loop, and trigger the dopamine reward pathways in your brain. Reward enhances learning and sparks motivation.

ENGAGE: Absorb yourself in learning the task. Get feedback from the best.

  • Focus on learning the new skill.
  • Single-minded attention on the task is vital (multi-tasking leads to cognitive burnout!)
  • Use a teacher/coach/guide to give feedback and finesse.
  • A note for any teacher/coach/guide: You should act as a resource, not a micromanager of the process. Motivation comes from autonomy and mastery. We all respond to internal rather than external rewards.

FEEL: Find the sweet spot between boredom and fear.

  • Find your flow. At mild to moderate levels of activation, the brain is in the optimal state to learn. At very low levels or very high levels of arousal learning is inhibited. We see this at every neurobiological level from the synapse all the way through to behaviour.
  • Boredom is a symptom of under-arousal — perhaps the new task isn’t testing you. Try to set a bigger goal, move the goalposts, or change the environment you’re training in.
  • Fear is a symptom of over-arousal — perhaps a task is too hard. Does it FAR exceed yours skill level? Maybe you haven’t ‘micro-goaled’ your challenge down into manageable pieces or projects.

IMAGINE: Rehearse in your mind’s eye.

  • Thinking and doing are the same in the brain. The same brain regions that are activated when completing a motor skill are activated when mentally rehearsing the same task.
  • Musicians and athletes commonly use mental rehearsal or visualisation to help achieve mastery.
  • You can mentally rehearse how you’ll respond emotionally to an event. Try rehearsing how you’ll respond emotionally if you hit a ‘roadblock’ or failure.
  • Mental rehearsal can be thought of as practicing when you can’t deliberately practice.

REPEAT: Deliberate practice makes perfect because of neuroplasticity.

  • Practice (practice, and practice) the new skill, behaviour or mindset.
  • Neurons that fire together wire together. Neurons that are out of sync fail to link.
  • Deliberate practice trumps talent. Genius is not born; instead mastery is made.
  • This is where the grit and determination come in. Deliberate practice isn’t always fun.
  • Amateurs practice till they get it right; professionals practice till they can’t get it wrong.

EGO: Who are you becoming?

  • The language you use to talk to yourself matters. Are you trying to write a book, or are you an author? Is your goal to get fit, or are you a runner? Do you want to learn to play piano, or are you a musician?
  • Instead of focussing on distant goals, tend to your identity. Who you will become as you REFIRE?


Try it!  What new skill would you like to master? Apply the REFIRE model as part of your learning, and let me know how you go.

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22 Responses to REFIRE: 6 steps to rewire your brain (and master anything).

  1. I really like this concept. With our kids it’s tricky I’m more of a….if they like it they will practice…sort of parent which fits with the internal reward thing you are talking about. But should I reward them externally because until you start to get good at something are you really going to enjoy it. My 9 year old keeps passionately wanting to start something she sticks at it for a while between 12/ 3 months then quits. At what point do we say that’s it stick to it. Sometimes I just want to let them read your emails. Maybe you could write motivational/educational exerts for kids. Just a thought. I enjoy reading your emails.

      • Hi Sarah-My first blog on your website. I am a mental health therapist, SW, in Ontario and have been so for over 30 years. Your eloquent, succinct, and comprehensive approach and replies really is fascinating and encouraging. In response to Naomi, I have a 30 yo son, studying to be a chiropractor. In his childhood, from age 6-20+he trained and became an accomplished tae-kwondoe reaching national and international competition. He was no easy child–showed some early signs of possible ADHD–the martial arts channeled that energy positively–balanced mental, physical, emotional, health and became a winner in life. Naomi, we exposed all 3 children to various sports, arts, academic areas. In the end–the life-long support and encouragement from various sources have paid off.They have chosen, and rather than being critical or judgmental when they chose a different activity or interest, we said they were not ready to make that kind of commitment and moved on. Sarah and her strong commitment to neuroscience is providing the needed direction for our children and all of humanity! Mahalo (I’m from Hawaii). Live Aloha, Stay Well, Felix

  2. Really interesting. Thank you. I shall be looking more closely at this and trying to follow all your excellent advice.

    PS May I suggest that you get someone to proof read your article as there are minor, but noticeable mistakes or typing errors. Sorry, but it is something that I always notice.

    • Thanks Annita … I’d love a live-in editor. I’m HOPELESS at editing my own work. I read and re-read it out loud etc and STILL never quite catch all the typos! Ahh well…

  3. Hi Sarah. I love this.. .Having an acronym and simple steps is so useful. I’d say it aligns nicely with the AGES model and associated research re maximizing knowledge retention and skill utilization over time. Thanks for sharing! Makes me think of Jeffrey Schwartz’s work around attention density also, and the work we do around setting goals. Love your stuff! 🙂

  4. Thank you for this amazing treasure trove of information. This comes at a perfect time because I am starting to navigate my life instead of drifting along.

  5. Hey Sarah, I love reading your post again and again. It’s really inspire and motivate me. I am a physiotherapist, Pilates teacher and yoga teacher. Your neuro plasticity reserch article is really helpful to inspire day to day clients who suffers from long term chronic issues and achieve their desire goal. Words are not enough to express gratitude that you deserve for all you have been doing.

  6. Great post Sarah – Thank You!
    What i admire about your writing is that you synthesise so many different approaches and frameworks, from a wide variety of psychologists and academics – and manage to make them into straightforward practical steps.
    Will be sharing this blog to my newsletter list.
    Echo your response to the ‘typo’ comment above – I’m not exactly strong on detail and tend to read what I expect to see when checking over something I’ve written, instead of what’s actually there! I now have a Virtual Assistant post my blog who can spot the howlers I miss.

  7. Hi Sarah
    I like this a lot, so many great links with easy to understand explanations. Thank you.

    The initial section about talent reminds me of a comment from drawing classes ‘putting in the brush miles’. It also reminds me of your blog a few weeks ago about nurturing talent in children, and providing the optimal conditions where they may find flow. I have given this a lot of thought over the years and still don’t know what the answer is. I feel that some of this is tied up in my questioning the definitions of success. If a child is lucky enough to find flow in just being, is that enough? How do we balance introducing them to as many activities as possible without taking away from time for reflection? And will we orchestrate their lives to the point where they have no time for surprise discoveries of their own?

  8. I suffer from musician’s focal dystonia. I am currently following a neuroplasticity based retraining program. If follows very similar concepts. The idea is to replace faulty or corrupted wiring brought on by the dystonia. I should mention that it takes a very long time, years in most cases, to overcome focal dystonia through neuroplasticity. But it is possible.

    • Thanks for adding this in Alberto. Change is never easy and, yes, you’re correct it can take years. ESPECIALLY in the case of neurological disorders such as yours. As I say, neuroplasticity is a term for a range of neurobiological mechanisms, not a magic wand!

  9. Sarah,
    Thank you so much for the wonderful, enlightening article. I LOVE neuroplasticity. I’m a former psychologist and current neurocoach and, like you, am dedicated to getting the knowledge about neuroscience and it’s applicability to everyday life out to as many as possible. I appreciate your use of the REFIRE acronym to rewire the brain. Just watched your TEDx talk about napping which was phenomenal. With your help, I hope our culture, esp. biz culture, will come to accept the wisdom of caring for and listening to the body and brain. If you’d like some help editing your articles, I’d love to help you out. I have two international bestsellers as references and this is a serious offer. It would be my pleasure and part of my continuing education. Please consider it. Dr. Simone Ravicz

  10. Signed up for the Brainathon … was directed from your talk there. Will read more … got this bookmarked!

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